10 less obvious dates for your perfect Gothic wedding
As weddings in late October become more and more popular, you may be finding it increasingly difficult to secure your favourite venue and book your preferred suppliers, but fear not! There are plenty of alternative dates that can add a touch of macabre elegance to your special day. So pull out your calendar and take a look at some of these options…
1. A date that’s symbolic to you
A massive bonus on choosing a date that’s symbolic to you is that it’s easy to remember. Maybe think about the anniversary of you getting together, birthdays, moving in together or other special events that you’ve shared. In some Pagan and Wiccan traditions the wedding date is set as ‘a year and a day’ from the day you got engaged. Choosing a wedding date with personal meaning can be a beautiful reminder of shared experiences. It’s a way of honouring the past while celebrating the future.
2. Friday 13th
Real Wedding featuring Horror movie characters. Image Vicky Dubois Photography
Consider embracing the superstition surrounding Friday 13th by choosing this eerie date for your wedding. It’s a timeless choice for couples who want to infuse their celebration with a bit of fun. You could even play on the horror theme and bring in elements of the movie franchise like Callum and Becky.
There are several Friday 13th’s happening over the next couple of years
· Friday 13th December 2024
· Friday 13th June 2025
· Friday 13th February 2026
· Friday 13th March 2026
· Friday 13th November 2026
3. Winter Solstice
Winter Solstice wedding captured by Electric Blue Photography
Embrace the ethereal beauty of the longest night of the year by opting for a winter solstice wedding… a natural date for a celebration. This celestial event steeped in ancient folklore, offers a captivating backdrop for a gothic-themed celebration. Imagine exchanging vows amidst the glow if flickering candles and evergreen foliage.
· Winter solstice is usually the 21st December
4. Midsummer Night
Styling Foxglove & Black image Andrew Barrell Photo
In the same vein and Winter Solstice, why not pick Summer Solstice? Escape into the twilight realm of Shakespear’s ‘A Midsummer Night’s Dream”. Think lush greenery, ethereal fairy
lights, and a touch of whimsical enchantment. This dreamy date offers a perfect blend of romance and mysticism for gothic couples seeking a spellbinding wedding experience.
· Summer Solstice falls on the 21st June
5. aLL hALLOW’S eVE eVE
Real Wedding Vicky Dubois Photography
Why not consider the day before Halloween for your wedding date? Embrace the anticipation and excitement of All Hallows/ Eve by hosting your celebration on the 30th October… if even make it a week long celebration and start on the 24th of the month. This bewitching date allows you to revel in the prelude to Halloween while avoiding the potential scheduling conflicts associated with the actual holiday. From gothic masquerade balls to hauntingly elegant décor, your wedding can capture the essence of Halloween without the logistical challenges, AND you still get to celebrate Halloween too!
6. On a full moon
Real Wedding. Image by Vicky Dubois Photography
The full moon represents balance and harmony; what better traits to infuse your wedding? Not only does the full moon make for kick ass wedding photos, but energy, passion and deeper connection are all heightened under a full moon. Ancient Greeks believed that marriages during the full Moon were the most prosperous and happiest.
We’ve picked out the full moons that land on a Friday or Saturday ready for you to think about
· 12th April 2025
· 9th September 2025
· 31st January 2026
· 29th May 2026
· 27th June 2026
· 24th October 2026
7. Solar Eclipse
Real wedding by Valerie & Co Photography
Imagine a clandestine gathering, shrouded in an otherworldly ambiance, as the moon’s shadow cloaks the sun. I always think it’s a perfect date option for potential vampires when the sun is blocked from doing harm. Okay okay, I’m clearly too absorbed by vampire movies, but am I wrong?
There are two possible solar eclipse dates for you to consider
· 29th March 2025
· 12th August 2026
8. Dracula Publishing Anniversary
Styling Foxglove & Black, Image Gem Wright Photography
Speaking of Vampires, what about tying the knot on the anniversary of the publishing date of arguably the greatest love story,,, ‘I have crossed oceans of time to find you’
· 26th May
9. Edgar Allan Poe’s Deathiversary
Raven Bouquet by Maddison Rocks Floral
Possibly my favourite potential date is the deathiversay of Edgar Allan Poe. Poe is a name that often comes to mind. Known for his dark haunting themes, Poe’s peoms about love are no exception. His unique style of writing captures the complexities of love in a way that is both beautiful and eerie.
We loved with a love that was more than love… from Annabel Lee, which tells the story of a young couple who’s love transcends even death and explores the themes of undying devotion and the power of love to conquer all obstacles… a perfect sentiment for a perfect day.
· 7th October
10. May the 4th be with you
May the 4th is always a popular theme for alternative weddings, but we’re seeing recent wedding requests are taking their Star Wars themes to the dark side. You can be really creative with this theme and it’s so easy to bury death stars, Millennium Falcons and lightsabres into your décor.
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As a gothic couple, you have the opportunity to infuse your special day with a rich tapestry of influences and ideas. By embracing alternate spooky dates, you can create an unforgettable wedding that reflects your distinctive style and love for macabre. From ancient traditions to literary inspiration, the possibilities for crafting a hauntingly beautiful wedding are endless.