Leap year Proposals are Goth AF
Goth culture is deeply rooted in alternative thinking and the defiance of tradition, epitomizing the rejection of societal norms and the embrace of individuality. By challenging tradition, goth culture advocates for the liberation of self-expression and authenticity, transcending the constraints of conformity in favour of a fairer, more real, existence.
So imagine then, hundreds of years ago when women had very few rights and convention dictated that only men could propose, how incredibly punk it was for a woman to break custom to bend the knee!
Unravelling Tradition: The Dark Tale of Women's Proposals on Leap Year
The act of women proposing marriage on a Leap Year has captivated imaginations for centuries, but at its core lies a narrative steeped in defiance, upheaval, and the audacity to challenge age-old norms.
Whether it was St Brigid who struck up a deal with St Patrick or a law that sprung up in England as the 29th of Feb wasn’t recognised by law and therefore proposals on that date weren’t held to the same seriousness; it created a window for people to defy convention.
How breaking traditions creates a fairer society
This inversion of societal expectations has left an indelible mark on customs. It reverberates with the power of choice—an assertion of agency that defies the boundaries of expectation. It is a testament to those who dare to forge their own path, untethered by the fetters of antiquated customs and the constraints of prescribed roles.
As times evolve, everyone has the freedom to propose at any time of year, reflecting the progress made in creating a more inclusive and accepting world. By holding the door open to these small and incremental changes, we are ushering in more enlightened and compassionate times, where barriers are shattered, and love knows no bounds.
Societal constraints are evolving, and I can’t help feeling subcultures like ours, that challenge tradition, have played a crucial role in these transformations over the years. Through the relentless pursuit of knowledge, the gentle shift in thinking, individuals within the community have contributed to a fairer and safer society. By daring to challenge traditions and advocating for change, we pave the way for a more inclusive, progressive and understanding society, where differences are celebrated, and everyone feels seen and heard.
So yes, Leap Year proposals are Goth AF
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These images are taken from a styled shoot held in Gothenburg created by Mayah Popovska Photography
Dress Legend Bridal
Headpiece and accessories Viveka Gren
Cake Cellis Tarta
Drinks High on Love Winery
